Easy small talk
Conversation Starters
Convo starters you can use right now: easy small talk, funny, deep, date, work and texting questions. Tap for a random conversation starter, or scroll for the full list.
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Conversation starters for every situation
Awkward silences usually come from not knowing what to ask, not from having nothing to say. This page gives you 153 conversation starters in 10 situations, from easy small talk to deep questions. Pick the situation, press the button and ask the question as written. Starters do not repeat until you have seen every one in your selection.
Conversation Starters at a glance
| Questions | 153, written by the RandomTopics editors |
|---|---|
| Categories | Easy small talk (18), Get to know you (16), Fun & funny (16), Deep (16), First date (16), Work & networking (16), Friends & group hangouts (14), Texting (14), Family dinner (13), Kids & students (14) |
| Good for | Small talk, dates, networking, texting, family dinners, classrooms |
| Tone | Friendly and clean; no personal or sensitive topics |
| Repeats | None until every question in the selection has been shown |
How to use conversation starters
- Pick the situation (small talk, date, work, texting or family) or leave it on all.
- Draw a starter and ask it as written.
- Listen to the full answer before you reply.
- Ask one follow-up that starts with "what" or "how".
- If the topic dries up, draw the next starter.
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How people use these questions
- Meeting new people. Use the Easy small talk group at parties, events and first days.
- Dates. Use the First date group to go past the usual job-and-hometown questions.
- Work and networking. Use the Work group at conferences, team lunches and onboarding.
- Texting. Send a Texting starter to restart a quiet chat.
- Family and classrooms. Use the Family dinner and Kids groups for table talk and morning meetings.
All 153 conversation starters by category
👋 Easy small talk (18)
- What is the best thing that happened to you this week?
- Have you found any good shows or podcasts lately?
- What is your go-to comfort food?
- Are you a morning person or a night owl?
- What is something you are looking forward to this month?
- What is the best meal you have had recently?
- Do you have any plans for the weekend?
- What is your favorite season, and why?
- What is the last thing that made you laugh out loud?
- Coffee, tea or something else to start the day?
- What is your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
- Have you read or watched anything good recently?
- What is a small thing that made your day better?
- If you could be anywhere right now, where would you be?
- What is your favorite thing about where you live?
- What kind of music have you had on repeat lately?
- What is a place near here that you would recommend?
- What is something you learned recently that surprised you?
🙋 Get to know you (16)
- What do you do when you have a free afternoon?
- What is something you are really good at that most people do not know about?
- Where did you grow up, and what was it like?
- What is your favorite childhood memory?
- If you could have dinner with anyone, who would it be?
- What was your first job, and what did you learn from it?
- What are you most proud of this year?
- What is a hobby you would love to pick up?
- Who has had the biggest influence on your life?
- What is your favorite trip you have ever taken?
- What is a skill you would love to learn?
- What is a book, movie or song that changed how you think?
- What was your dream job as a kid?
- What is a tradition that is important to you?
- What is the best piece of advice you have been given?
- What does a perfect day look like for you?
😄 Fun & funny (16)
- If you could have any superpower for a day, what would you pick?
- What is the weirdest food combination you secretly love?
- If animals could talk, which would be the rudest?
- What would your walk-up song be?
- If you had to eat one meal every day for a year, what would it be?
- What is the most useless talent you have?
- If you could swap lives with a cartoon character, who would it be?
- What would the title of your autobiography be?
- What is the funniest thing that has happened to you at work or school?
- If your pet could write a review of you, what would it say?
- What is your most irrational fear?
- If you could add a new rule to any sport, what would it be?
- Which fictional place would you most like to visit?
- What would you do if you were invisible for an hour?
- What is the best prank you have ever seen or pulled?
- If you started a band, what would it be called?
💭 Deep (16)
- What does success mean to you?
- What is something you changed your mind about in the last few years?
- What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
- What is one thing you wish you had started earlier?
- What are you most grateful for right now?
- When do you feel most like yourself?
- What is a belief you hold that most people disagree with?
- What is the hardest lesson you have learned?
- What do you want to be remembered for?
- What is something you are still figuring out?
- If you could talk to your younger self, what would you say?
- What makes a friendship last?
- What does home mean to you?
- When did you last feel truly proud of yourself?
- What scares you about the future, and what excites you?
- What is something you wish more people understood about you?
☕ First date (16)
- What is something you are passionate about right now?
- What is your idea of a perfect weekend?
- What is the best trip you have ever taken, and what made it great?
- What is something on your bucket list?
- What do you do to unwind after a long week?
- What was the last thing that made you really excited?
- What is your love language, as far as you can tell?
- What did you want to be when you grew up?
- What is a food you could eat forever?
- What is something people often get wrong about you?
- Which three words would your friends use to describe you?
- What is a small thing that makes you feel loved?
- What kind of adventure would you go on if we left right now?
- What is the most spontaneous thing you have ever done?
- What is a show you could rewatch endlessly?
- What are you hoping to try this year?
💼 Work & networking (16)
- How did you get into your line of work?
- What is the most interesting project you are working on right now?
- What do you enjoy most about your role?
- What is something you wish you had known when you started your career?
- How do you like to unwind after a busy week?
- Have you been to any good events or talks lately?
- What is the best piece of career advice you have received?
- What skills are you trying to build this year?
- What does a typical day look like for you?
- What is a tool or habit that has improved how you work?
- What is your favorite thing about our industry right now?
- If you could do any other job for a year, what would it be?
- What is a book or podcast you would recommend to someone in our field?
- How did you hear about this event?
- What is one thing you are proud of at work this year?
- What would you like to learn from other people here today?
🎉 Friends & group hangouts (14)
- What is the best thing you have eaten this month?
- What is a movie everyone should see at least once?
- If we could take a trip together, where would we go?
- What is a game you could play all night?
- What was the best concert, show or game you have been to?
- What is your most memorable moment from last year?
- Who is someone you would invite to a dinner party if you could invite anyone?
- What is the strangest thing you have ever found?
- What is a hidden talent of yours?
- What would be your dream way to spend a free Saturday?
- If we started a business together, what would it be?
- What is something you want to do before the year ends?
- What is a skill you would swap with another person here?
- Which fictional friend group would you want to join?
💬 Texting (14)
- Quick question: what is the best thing you have eaten this week?
- Random thought: if you could live anywhere for a month, where would it be?
- What is the most played song on your phone right now?
- Be honest: what is your go-to comfort show?
- What is one thing that made you smile today?
- What is something you want to try this weekend?
- If you had a free plane ticket tomorrow, where would you go?
- Dogs, cats or something wilder?
- What is your current favorite app, besides this one?
- What was your favorite subject at school, and why?
- Is there a movie you can quote from start to finish?
- What would you order if I said dinner was on me?
- What is the best compliment you have ever received?
- What is something you are weirdly good at?
🍽️ Family dinner (13)
- What was the best part of your day?
- If you could pick our next family vacation, where would we go?
- What is your favorite family tradition?
- What is one thing you learned this week?
- If you could have any pet, what would it be?
- What is a family recipe you would like to learn?
- What is your funniest family memory?
- If you could invent a holiday, what would we do on it?
- What is something you are proud of this week?
- Who is someone that made you smile today?
- What is a story from our family history that you like?
- If our family had a theme song, what would it be?
- What would you cook if you were in charge of dinner tonight?
🧒 Kids & students (14)
- If you could be any animal for a day, which would you be?
- What is your favorite thing to do at recess?
- What would you build if you had a million blocks?
- What is the funniest thing you saw today?
- If you could have lunch with any cartoon character, who would it be?
- What is your favorite book, and why?
- What superpower would help you most at school?
- If you could make up a new game, what would it be called?
- What is something kind someone did for you this week?
- What would you do if you were the teacher for a day?
- If you had a treehouse, what would be inside?
- What is your favorite thing to draw?
- If you could travel anywhere, where would you go first?
- What is something new you would like to learn?
Conversation Starters FAQ
What are good conversation starters?
Good conversation starters are open-ended (they cannot be answered with yes or no), easy for anyone to answer, and about something the other person can talk about for a minute, like food, travel or what they are looking forward to. The Easy small talk group on this page is built that way.
How do you start a conversation with someone you do not know?
Comment on something you share, such as the event, the place or the food, then ask one open question. "How did you hear about this event?" or "Have you found any good shows lately?" work well. Listen to the answer and ask one follow-up before changing topics.
What are good conversation starters for a first date?
Ask about things that make someone light up: what they are passionate about, their best trip, a food they could eat forever. The First date group has 16 starters that avoid heavy topics and still go beyond "so, what do you do?"
What are good conversation starters for work and networking?
Ask about the person's role, current project or what they hope to learn at the event. Questions like "What is the most interesting project you are working on?" give them an easy opening. The Work & networking group has 16.
What are good texting conversation starters?
Keep them short and light, with one clear question: a favorite show, a weekend plan or a comfort food. The Texting group is written to be sent as-is.
What is the difference between conversation starters and conversation topics?
A topic is a subject, like travel. A starter is the actual question you say out loud, like "If we could take a trip together, where would we go?" This page lists ready-to-use starters; for broader subjects try the random conversation topic generator.
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